There is a concept within the spiritual community that has been misinterpreted and needs clarification. It is the distorted spiritual Law of Gender or Law of Polarity or Duality. This distortion or misinterpretation of divine masculine and feminine unity has been presented as a physical sacred union of a pair of romantic partners labeled as Twin Flame, Soul Mate, or Soul Twin. If we look at the story of Shiva and Shakti we see this as a way to explain the balance of the divine feminine and masculine meant to be balanced within each of us as humans. This union of the feminine and masculine is not actually obtained by seeking out a physical partner. This is not a sexual tantric quest to achieve enlightenment nor a particular perfect mate or spouse to share our lives with. This is not to say that physical relationships and romantic partner relationships don’t contribute to our lessons and experiences towards our personal masculine and feminine balance or towards our path of ascension. It is true that there are some actual twin souls, and at this time, very few that exist as physical bodies on Earth. The soul twin can be expressed in a myriad of ways- as siblings, a parent child relationship, close friends, and even lovers. The soul twin, even more rarely can reside within one physical body on Earth.
To be clear, masculine and feminine is not defined by our gender, our DNA configuration, or our sexual preferences. Masculine and feminine, in this context, refers to how the energy polarities are expressed into form. Polarity describes the balance of opposites present in all of creation, whether manifested as physical form or existing etherically. Think of the positive and negative charge of batteries needed to form a circuit to conduct the electrons through the wires to power a machine. Our bodies are the conductors of the flow of Source energy and the complex systems of our bodies act as the circuitry and our consciousness is the engineer of our body. Our consciousness and Source energy provide the instructions to our physical body via our energetic light body. If our bodies aren’t able to receive these instructions properly, we suffer from imbalances. Bodily imbalances are the cause of health problems, not only physiologically, but psychologically as well. Within the context of ascension, we are seeking out to harmonize and unify the extreme polarity imbalances within ourselves- the fundamental principles of polarity. As humans, our physical body pairs, or counterparts, are referred to as gender. Gender pairs are expressed in most of the animal and plant kingdoms on Earth.
The soul mate has been described often to refer to the perfect romantic partner that seemed as destiny when the meeting occurred and the couple finds themselves inseparable and head over heels in love from that moment forward. In reality, we are all soulmates. That being said, there are soul agreements, soul pairings, and soul groups that do indeed exist, that most certainly serve a divine purpose. The role of soul mate can include any number of platonic soul relationships as well as that of a romantic partner. A soul mate may be labeled as such when there is a memory or a feeling of having known this person throughout lifetimes or eternally existing with them or feeling as if you are supposed to accomplish a life goal together through some sort of pre-birth agreement. While all of these can be true, sadly more often than not, there are so many distortions in our perceptions of romantic love and partnership, primarily through our ego and predatorial forces, that cause this phenomenon. This is not to say there are not perfect marriages and partnerships experienced, by any means, but these are not the same type of soul partnerships serving the purpose of the Indigo, Star Seed, and Lightworker spiritual union roles or missions.
There is a strange seduction that happens with relationships when one or both partners are infested with entities and attachments. There are specific parasitic predators that feed off of sexual misery and dysfunctional relationships. They are originally responsible for the root causes of the sexual and relationship discordance and damages of humanity. There are numerous intentional and unintentional sexual and energetic predators that are motivated by ego, unhealed emotional wounding, mental illness and trauma, belief systems, and a number of other harmful mental constructs and distortions. Due to unawareness of these unhealthy and destructive dynamics of victim-victimizer and other archetypal patternings, unhealed aspects of ourselves, energetic attachments and parasitic entities, soul fragmentation, and any number of energetic and spiritual woundings, and those of our prospective partners, we are not likely to have blissful and harmonious partnerships and relationships with anyone. The intense intrigue and infatuation of these predatorial seductions may seem very real, but if we are diligent in our spiritual protection and self mastery practices and are aware of our unhealed self and ego traps, we can see that our self relationship and love take precedence over our quest for romantic partnership. It’s our loneliness and desire for something external to heal us and make us whole that lures us into these relationship traps of the false or imposter soul mate, twin, or divine union partner. We must nurture and protect ourselves lovingly and have the clarity to proceed with caution and honest foresight and not be blinded by our emotional and biological needs and egos that prevent us from our right thinking.
In general, most Indigos, Starseeds, and Lightworkers are not aware of their roles and relationships and their soul identities aren’t even known to them. Although the disclosure through imparted information from Source is accelerating, it isn’t necessary to know that you came to Earth with the purpose of assisting humanity and Earth’s ascension process. And many that are very aware and in full communication with their higher selves, Light families, and guides, are still confused and not all that clear about their knowledge of their true identities and purpose here on Earth. There are many cases of people connecting and communicating psychically, energetically, empathically, and/or telepathically with their soul twin and or soul families. As said, the person isn’t necessarily aware of the experience they are having and there are various reasons that soul relationship identities aren’t disclosed, therefore often the experience isn’t understood. Some of these experiences are dismissed out of frustration of the inability to understand who this person is, remembered from childhood as an imaginary friend, or seen as a delusion associated with mental illness. Often the soul twin in question is not inhabiting a body or is inhabiting a body but living in a very far proximity to their pair, due to soul mission requirements to be in a specific location. This arrangement can be temporary and some cases the person may be in communication or energetically aware of their paired connection and will travel in order to physically locate in order to reunite with their soul family member or twin partner.
Just as it is important to proceed with discernment in our choices and pursuit of romantic partners and relations, and our perception of our purpose and connection to our soul partnerships, it is equally important to apply this with the information and teachings presented and shared within the spiritual community. There are many in spiritual leadership roles that are not in a place of true responsible leadership and service to others and may be regurgitating material that they have gathered from various sources without personal experiences, questioning, or research, either due to naivety, negligence, or predatorial greed. The majority may have their intentions and their heart in the right place in service to others but their connection and communication with Source may be unclear for a number of reasons leading them to spread misinformation, rather than harming purposefully through calculated disinformation or fabricated teachings. Be extremely leary of and guard yourself from anyone claiming to be an expert on the subject, that they know of, can predict, or give you a reading pertaining to your Twin Flame or Soul Mate, or can provide some sort of attunement to connect you with this person.
The Twin Flame has been the most misunderstood of all the labels of physical or energetic unions and, in fact, isn’t a partnership at all. It is the description of the merging, or union, of the divine feminine and masculine within the light body- the full balance of energetic polarity within the body. It is similar to describing the process of the opening and balancing of the chakras of the body termed as kundalini fire. It is a way to describe what is seen by those with extra sensory perception when these energetic systems of the body activate, come into alignment, or balance with each other. This is the true sacred union, the merging and balance of the divine masculine and feminine polarities within the human form and energetic body together as one with that body. It has nothing to do with astral travel experiences, physical relationships, sex, or orgasm. Similar to a full kundalini awakening, it is something the vast majority of humans have yet to experience. Many may claim to know their Twin Flame or have experienced a full opening of their chakras, but they are mistaken. These are all possibilities in the near future, but presently, we simply haven’t collectively reached that point of our ascension process. Rather than judge others or ourselves for our ignorance and misguidance, it is necessary to forgive ourselves and others for our misperceptions and misunderstandings or our gullibility, and honor our learning process and where we personally are in our ascension progression.
“The source of our love comes from within. No one out there is that source. It makes sense to go to that source.”
The Twin Flame divine union, also termed Heiros Gamos, Latin for sacred marriage, is achieved during the process of clearing out our higher chakras and through the healing of all aspects of our multidimensional selves. When all blockages to accessing our high heart or 8th chakra are cleared, we are able to experience the igniting of our Twin Flame through our inner sacred marriage of divine masculine and feminine polarity balance. At that point, an additional vibration or frequency is added to our existing consciousness, termed Christ consciousness or Holy Trinity. This is the Holy Mother and Father birthing of the Christ child metaphor. Christ is not a person, but a consciousness beyond our understanding here on Earth at this time. This is the move beyond polarity or duality- from a dual frequency to that of the trinity wave, the permanent state of zero point neutrality. Zero point or neutrality denotes a full state of balance- that of oneness, unity, and love; the state of divine union with God and all of creation. The unity consciousness which we are ultimately moving forward into during this ascension cycle.
To paraphrase Steven Stills, “if you can’t be with one you love, love the one you’re with”…and that someone is you! Keep on loving yourself with all the effort and energy you put into loving others,